• We did it! πŸ‘πŸ»

    Another week completed and in the books, Boils and Ghouls!

    I’m hoping it was as thrilling and productive for you as possible, and now wishing that you have a rejuvenating weekend to look forward to, and some lovely spring weather to welcome!


    On the eastern coast of Canada 🌊 we usually welcome a mixed bag of weather for our Spring season (e.g., it could be high temperature summer sunny one day, and then a frost warning the next…) so when planning outfits, I’m always looking for a good transitional wardrobe to build outfits with (i.e., items you can layer upon or customize within a season to brace for those colder, outlier days πŸ₯Ά)

    Friday’s Fashion Icon 🀩

    But before we get into tonight’s post, let me introduce you to

    A true style icon on Parallel and such an inspirational IG content creator– Becka Hake’s chill and casual vibes give off the coziest and most chic outfits that look perfect for that seasonal transition, and feels so effortless and easy to recreate, or customize to rock in your own way!

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    Casually chill, laid-back and effortlessly easy to recreate & customize – I love the energy in every one of her photos and the radiance each outfit gives off in each post (plus it doesn’t hurt that all her items are linked via Parallel πŸ‘€)

    For today’s Fashion Friday focused blog post, I wanted to showcase just some of my favorite Becka outfits that have actually inspired my own oufits to help with that transition from cold winter to blooming spring happiness β˜€οΈ


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    Favorite Outfits Via Beckahake’s Feed πŸ›οΈ

    Chunky boots & skirts

    I’m such a fan of big shoes – be it platform sandals, skate sneakers, or chunky sole combat boots – I just feel like many of my current style guide and outfit inspos revolve around a big, chunky footwear.

    It feels chic, edgy, yet effortlessly casual- the tee, skirt and light cardigan- with cozy spirited energy that completes the entire look.

    It’s perfect for an overcast-y spring afternoon… to grab an iced beverage and browse the town…

    And to dress up the look, rock it out with a vintage blazer to give it that Night Out edge!

    Weekend Market Trip Vibes

    Who has the energy to dress up on a Saturday morning? I’m definitely not one of those souls. So on the weekend, I love a look that is easy to put together and ultra comfortable.

    A baseball cap, comfy wide-leg pants, cozy shirts and large totebags? Yes – my ideal weekend wardrobe. Especially when weekends are usually Laundry days…

    When the coastal winds are still extra chilly and strong, I’ll choose to wear a jacket (e.g. like my leather blazer from Eva B) until a sweater is more appropriate 🀞🏻

    Blending Textures

    The one thing I find so comforting is when I blend textures together. Mixing leathers with wool, suede with satin, etc. and find those items in my wardrobe to be the best for transitional outfit planning…

    Looking AND feeling comfortable should be my official slogan for life… and frankly, the more layers your outfit has does increase the comfiness factor (to me, anyways… )

    & When The Sun Starts To Come Out β˜€οΈ

    Retro Baby Tees

    I can’t wait to wear my new baby tees and also break out all my cropped tees to rock during the warmer weather!

    I spent last summer cropping a bunch of cool, local tees I found while thrifting to chic, crop tops to pair with shorts, skirts and high-waisted jeans.

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    FlowY Dresses

    When it’s truly warm and humid, why would anyone want fitted clothing suffocating their skin? πŸ™ˆ

    Sure, some fitting is required (especially for strapless flowy dresses) but the less body-fitting, the better for warmer weather- in my opinion!

    And I seriously can’t wait to break out some older flowy dresses from last summer and revamp them with some upcoming sewing projects I have in mind 🧡


    Thanks for taking the time to read and browse through tonight’s Fashion Friday blog post. I hope you’ve been equally inspired to recreate these outfit looks this spring season!

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    Drop a 🌷 if you’ve read this far or comment below which outfits you’d be inspired to try πŸ‘€

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  • Happy Sunday (or second Caturday 😻 as I’ve deemed it for those with a longer weekend.) The extra day off has done wonders for my ability to recharge and reset my soul…

    Oh, if you haven’t already done so, check out yesterday’s post on overcoming slumps for some inspo


    A Time For Recognition & Reflection 🌸

    May is a blossoming month with the rebirth and renewal of a new season and new opportunities. It can also be a reflective time to gain new perspectives and new insights, which happens to be the focus of today’s blog…

    In May 2022, Canada officially declared the month of May as
    Asian Heritage Month πŸ€—

    I want to share some resources with you that you can read and check out to gain more knowledge on the history and origin of Asian and Pacific Islander Heritage Month before we get into today’s blog!

    🍁 Canada.ca

    You can learn more about Asian Heritage Month on the Government of Canada’s webpage.

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    visit Canada.ca for more information

    Your Local Libraries πŸ“š

    Your local libraries would be a great resource to use to educate yourself, recognize and take reflection this month on Asian Heritage within your community!

    click on the image to visit their website for more information

    Here’s a couple of Canadian 🍁 Asian Authors to check out:

    Vincent Lam
    Author of On The Ravine, and Bloodletting & Miraculous Cures

    Catherine Hernandez
    Author of Behind You, and The Story of Us

    Speaking of books and reading, I have such a deep passion for reading translated literary fiction. Whenever I’m browsing my local bookshops, I always find myself engrossed in the various captivating titles and beautiful cover art.

    So I wanted to dedicate today’s blog post, in celebration of Asian and Pacific Islander Heritage month, to the various API Authors and their literary works of enchanting magic (or dark depravity.)


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    30 Books to Read During Asian Heritage Month
    Halifax Public Libraries Staff Picks

    API Authors I’ve Read So Far

    Monika Kim

    The Eyes Are The Best Part (2024)

    Asako Yuzuki

    Butter (2024)

    Sayaka Murata

    Earthlings (2018)


    API Authors to Explore

    I have such a long TBR pile that I feel like it will forever be an endless void of ambitious intrigue, but here are just some of the books currently on that list to read that I haven’t even gotten a chance to yet.

    Ling Ma

    Han Kang

    Sequoia Nagamatsu

    How High We Go In The Dark? (2022)

    Kazuo Ishiguro

    Never Let Me Go (2005)

    Yōko Ogawa

    The Memory Police (1994)

    Jade Song

    Chlorine (2023)

    You should really check out the full list of incredibly inspiring books written by other Asian and Pacific Islander authors over on Goodreads πŸ“š


    And actually, speaking of Jade Song

    In celebration of Asian and Pacific Islander Heritage Month, our morbid Mavens in the Mor(e)bid Curiosities Book Club chose to dive into the deep end with Jade Song’s literary body horror πŸ§œβ€β™€οΈ

    Chlorine

    It happens to be one of our TWO Morbid Curiosities book club selections for the month of (morbid) May and I might have been that excited to read it that I ordered a physical copy for my bookshelf way in advance πŸ™ˆ

    We will be reading and discussing this horrific gem until

    Wednesday, June 18th
    over on Fable

    so if you’re intrigued and wish to join the clubs, click on the bright green button…

    (You know you want to… )

    Do you have a π–’π–”π–—π–‡π–Žπ–‰ curiosity?


    If you happened to missed the previous blog post about our Morbid May book clubs reads, you can rewind by pressing this button: βͺ


    Drop a πŸ–€ if you’ve read up to this point and comment below on some of your favorite API Horror authors πŸ“š

    Until we meet again,


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  • I’m truly taking a moment to appreciate a break and the slow energy of this Saturday…

    Like I mentioned in my previous post, last week and well, life in general, has been widely chaotic lately… yet I’m somehow stuck in a weird energetic slump and unable to navigate successfully forward in any direction I wish to go (i.e., reading goals, personal life goals, professional goals, etc.)

    Maybe it’s been the fast-paced lifestyle I’ve lived for far too long or just an unfortunate collision of poorly timed events in life that has caused all to occur simultaneously and has left me buffering at 33%, indefinitely…


    However despite the fatigue, obstacles and rejection, I’m really looking to overcome this slump, while also appreciating what this energetic low period is trying to teach me to look into (living a more present, slow paced and restorative life!)

    So for today, let’s chat about how to get out of a slump when you’re stuck in one 😫

    Whether it’s due to burnout or other reasons, it’s important to take care of yourself if you want to show up fully present for others. Remember to protect your inner peace and recognize these slumps as teachable moments, to check in with yourself and recalibrate.

    I took the morning looking up some topics and ideas that sounded like good stepping stones to try while navigating ways to overcome this major bump in the road…

    How to overcome a slump and restore your energy πŸ”‹

    Focus on your Basic NeEds πŸ₯€

    Addressing your basic needs… seems easy, right? Like getting enough proper sleep, eating healthy foods, and keeping yourself hydrated. That all seems simple enough, but while you’re going through extreme periods of burn-out and fatigue, you will lose motivation to maintain even your basic human needs…

    So one of my top priorities at the moment is looking into a way to track and maintain these three basics:

    Sleep Well + Eat Healthy + Drink H2O

    As well as find ways to treat myself when I’ve achieved my daily amount to maintain motivation πŸ‘€

    Prioritize Self Care 🧘🏻

    Care for yourself by engaging in activities that bring joy and relaxation (for me, those would be reading, spending time outdoors, slow paced activities, etc.)

    I’m also going to make an effort to do more self-care evenings as part of my nightly rituals, with all the luxurious essentials, to recharge and reset my system into the ultimate Zen mode.

    And lastly, I really want to start focusing on increasing my physical activities (like going on more walks, increasing my yoga class attendance…) and adding more intentional slow-paced activities into my weekly routine (like reading in the park, art & photography, and cross-stitching…)


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    Be Kind to Yourself & Others and Seek Positive Inspo πŸ’•

    check out this blog post on Passion Planner

    By finding uplifting motivational energy through positive and helpful resources like books, articles and podcasts, and by being kind to yourself and others, you can truly recharge your vibes!

    Flo is the big sis you’ve always wanted and/or needed to help you empower your inner goddess!

    I thoroughly enjoyed listening to the these two podcasts, during the best and the worst of my energy periods, as they give me that sense of wholesome connection and security through their inspiring and uplifting words – like a truly needed hug at times!

    Tune in with besties Kristen and Alex to Oddvice where they navigate the highs and lows of life…

    The one thing that drew me to them was their humble and empowering vibes, their inspirational and uplifting energy and that protective sister security our inner child could always use.

    Due to intentionally changing my routine from being so conditionally helpless in my conquest to defeating my slump to being more empowered, I’m also encouraging myself to focus on being more compassionate and kind to my inner self, and shaping my inner dialogue to speak to a friend, not a foe.

    [Ask yourself]
    Would you speak to your friend like you speak to yourself?
    If no, then change your self-talk.

    Continuing scrolling to check out some other content creators who positively influence my self-kindness journey πŸ’•

    @chronic_empath on IG

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    @thewee.witch on IG

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    I love their radiant and luminous energy and the positivity they put forward in their content, and how their authenticity shines through each of their insightful and enlightening posts!

    As another recharger, I’m looking into signing up for volunteering opportunities this summer to meet people and navigate overcoming my social anxiety that has spiked in the recent years.

    Set Achievable Goals 🎯

    Baby steps. It’s about making things manageable to build momentum and confidence in one’s abilities to accomplish goals!

    I used to get really excited about pre-planning my upcoming monthly TBRs, and set out to prep about 10 books for a monthly TBR list and whichever I got to read that month, that would be it. Then I started getting really into book clubs on Fable and wanting to participate with other amazing Fablers in the discussions, and so my TBRs became mostly upcoming book club reads.

    April TBR on Fable
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    Then I signed up for NetGalley and got super into requesting ARCs that sounded so enticing, so then my entire TBR grew exponentially… so fast forward, it’s May Spring 2025, I’m overstimulated with my pre-prep and with so many other intriguing options to pick from that I feel ultimately stuck and rushed, which hauls any ambition to proceed through the ones I’m currently reading 😧

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    To overcome this reading slump and work towards reading through my monthly lists, I’ve limited the amount of books I read at once so I can manageably achieve my monthly TBR goals! I’d still like to try to aim for 10 reads a month, but I never want to pressure myself to anything I find recreationally fulfilling (or else I’m adding unnecessary demands on my body)

    At the moment, my plan is to maintain my velocity with my current reads, but by reading a max of three books at a time, one in each format (e.g., physical book, audiobook and eBook)


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    Drop a πŸ“° if you’ve read up to this point and comment below on how you overcome slumps in life (asking for a friend… πŸ™ˆ)

    Until we meet again,


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    4 responses to “Taking Care of Yourself When You’re in a Slump”

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      This is all great advice. Thank you! I also work on being kind to myself during these slumps. That usually means allowing myself to do only what sounds good, which is usually nothing except enjoying a good book or show.

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        I absolutely relate to that πŸ™ˆ and probably the reason I really wanted to chat about how to navigate these energetic lulls! I’m so glad you liked the post and also know you are not alone πŸ«‚πŸ–€

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