• I’m truly taking a moment to appreciate a break and the slow energy of this Saturday…

    Like I mentioned in my previous post, last week and well, life in general, has been widely chaotic lately… yet I’m somehow stuck in a weird energetic slump and unable to navigate successfully forward in any direction I wish to go (i.e., reading goals, personal life goals, professional goals, etc.)

    Maybe it’s been the fast-paced lifestyle I’ve lived for far too long or just an unfortunate collision of poorly timed events in life that has caused all to occur simultaneously and has left me buffering at 33%, indefinitely…


    However despite the fatigue, obstacles and rejection, I’m really looking to overcome this slump, while also appreciating what this energetic low period is trying to teach me to look into (living a more present, slow paced and restorative life!)

    So for today, let’s chat about how to get out of a slump when you’re stuck in one 😫

    Whether it’s due to burnout or other reasons, it’s important to take care of yourself if you want to show up fully present for others. Remember to protect your inner peace and recognize these slumps as teachable moments, to check in with yourself and recalibrate.

    I took the morning looking up some topics and ideas that sounded like good stepping stones to try while navigating ways to overcome this major bump in the road…

    How to overcome a slump and restore your energy πŸ”‹

    Focus on your Basic NeEds πŸ₯€

    Addressing your basic needs… seems easy, right? Like getting enough proper sleep, eating healthy foods, and keeping yourself hydrated. That all seems simple enough, but while you’re going through extreme periods of burn-out and fatigue, you will lose motivation to maintain even your basic human needs…

    So one of my top priorities at the moment is looking into a way to track and maintain these three basics:

    Sleep Well + Eat Healthy + Drink H2O

    As well as find ways to treat myself when I’ve achieved my daily amount to maintain motivation πŸ‘€

    Prioritize Self Care 🧘🏻

    Care for yourself by engaging in activities that bring joy and relaxation (for me, those would be reading, spending time outdoors, slow paced activities, etc.)

    I’m also going to make an effort to do more self-care evenings as part of my nightly rituals, with all the luxurious essentials, to recharge and reset my system into the ultimate Zen mode.

    And lastly, I really want to start focusing on increasing my physical activities (like going on more walks, increasing my yoga class attendance…) and adding more intentional slow-paced activities into my weekly routine (like reading in the park, art & photography, and cross-stitching…)


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    Be Kind to Yourself & Others and Seek Positive Inspo πŸ’•

    check out this blog post on Passion Planner

    By finding uplifting motivational energy through positive and helpful resources like books, articles and podcasts, and by being kind to yourself and others, you can truly recharge your vibes!

    Flo is the big sis you’ve always wanted and/or needed to help you empower your inner goddess!

    I thoroughly enjoyed listening to the these two podcasts, during the best and the worst of my energy periods, as they give me that sense of wholesome connection and security through their inspiring and uplifting words – like a truly needed hug at times!

    Tune in with besties Kristen and Alex to Oddvice where they navigate the highs and lows of life…

    The one thing that drew me to them was their humble and empowering vibes, their inspirational and uplifting energy and that protective sister security our inner child could always use.

    Due to intentionally changing my routine from being so conditionally helpless in my conquest to defeating my slump to being more empowered, I’m also encouraging myself to focus on being more compassionate and kind to my inner self, and shaping my inner dialogue to speak to a friend, not a foe.

    [Ask yourself]
    Would you speak to your friend like you speak to yourself?
    If no, then change your self-talk.

    Continuing scrolling to check out some other content creators who positively influence my self-kindness journey πŸ’•

    @chronic_empath on IG

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    @thewee.witch on IG

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    I love their radiant and luminous energy and the positivity they put forward in their content, and how their authenticity shines through each of their insightful and enlightening posts!

    As another recharger, I’m looking into signing up for volunteering opportunities this summer to meet people and navigate overcoming my social anxiety that has spiked in the recent years.

    Set Achievable Goals 🎯

    Baby steps. It’s about making things manageable to build momentum and confidence in one’s abilities to accomplish goals!

    I used to get really excited about pre-planning my upcoming monthly TBRs, and set out to prep about 10 books for a monthly TBR list and whichever I got to read that month, that would be it. Then I started getting really into book clubs on Fable and wanting to participate with other amazing Fablers in the discussions, and so my TBRs became mostly upcoming book club reads.

    April TBR on Fable
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    Then I signed up for NetGalley and got super into requesting ARCs that sounded so enticing, so then my entire TBR grew exponentially… so fast forward, it’s May Spring 2025, I’m overstimulated with my pre-prep and with so many other intriguing options to pick from that I feel ultimately stuck and rushed, which hauls any ambition to proceed through the ones I’m currently reading 😧

    Sign up to NetGalley (for free) by clicking the image below

    To overcome this reading slump and work towards reading through my monthly lists, I’ve limited the amount of books I read at once so I can manageably achieve my monthly TBR goals! I’d still like to try to aim for 10 reads a month, but I never want to pressure myself to anything I find recreationally fulfilling (or else I’m adding unnecessary demands on my body)

    At the moment, my plan is to maintain my velocity with my current reads, but by reading a max of three books at a time, one in each format (e.g., physical book, audiobook and eBook)


    Latest Blog Posts To Read for your sloW Pace Saturday



    Drop a πŸ“° if you’ve read up to this point and comment below on how you overcome slumps in life (asking for a friend… πŸ™ˆ)

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      This is all great advice. Thank you! I also work on being kind to myself during these slumps. That usually means allowing myself to do only what sounds good, which is usually nothing except enjoying a good book or show.

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        I absolutely relate to that πŸ™ˆ and probably the reason I really wanted to chat about how to navigate these energetic lulls! I’m so glad you liked the post and also know you are not alone πŸ«‚πŸ–€

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  • TFIF Boils and Ghouls, am I right?!

    The last week has been quite a chaotic whirlwind and I was about ready to admit defeat (as my exhaust fumes were extinguishing) when I realized there was a long weekend coming (so, yay an extra recharge day!)

    It’s also got me romantically longing for another Montreal trip so I can see lovely friends, truly recharge my soul and also check out some of my favorite spots in the city (like thrifting at Eva B and playing pinball at North Star)


    Being hit with pure exhaustion but bitten with the nostalgia bug really as me floating happily down memory lane and has also triggered some fond memories of my favorite childhood TV shows when I see those haunted VHS players

    So I thought I’d focus this Friday “Fright Night” around some of the scary shows that truly inspired my horror obsession πŸ‘»

    so you won’t miss out on blog posts πŸ‘†πŸ»

    + feel free to get nostalgic and rewind to last weekend


    Let’s begin our Friday Fright Night with a few scary shows

    Do we dare insert these VHS cassette tapes?!

    πŸ“Ό No 1: Freaky Stories

    “This is a true story. It happened to a friend of a friend of mine…”

    Growing up in Canada, I loved watched YTV and think back fondly to all the shows aired during the 90s that I loved, like Bobby’s World, Uh oh! and Reboot.

    But one of those shows that really holds a special place in my creepy heart happens to be a cute, (questionably child-friendly) animated collection of urban legends called Freaky Stories.

    watch on Tubi

    I grew morbidly fascinated with urban legends and wanted to uncover more deeply disturbing scary stories after watching this show πŸ‘» (sorry mom & dad, but you always knew I loved a good ghost story around the campfire…)

    πŸ“Ό No. 2: Are you Afraid of the Dark?

    “Submitted for the approval of the Midnight Society, I call this story…”

    This show actively made me want to join the Midnight Society (or have my very own) to tell creepy tales and ghost stories by the campfire, in the woods, with my friends in the middle of the night… (a ghoul can dream)

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    Honestly for a children’s show, I will admit that some of the episodes were actually very frightening, and still vividly stick with me to this very day… 🀑🀑🀑

    And it’s probably why I am STILL afraid of the dark…

    πŸ“Ό No 3: Beyond Belief: Fact or Fiction

    “To find out, you must enter a world of both truth and deception, a world that is beyond belief.”

    As I mentioned, I became morbidly curious with eerie and mysterious stories, and even more enthralled by the ones that could possibly be true… so of course when the TV series Beyond Belief: Fact or Fiction aired during my childhood, it would be one of the biggest influences on my morbid curiosity!

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    Each episode contains five stories that are reenacted (in a very 90s manner) and at the very end of the episode, you’ll learn which of the stories were FACT, and which were pure (horrific) FICTION.

    Both Hosts James Brolin & Jonathan Frakes do a fantastic job narrating in-between the stories (with Frakes replacing Brolin during Season 2) where you will really feel those chills down your spine during each story’s introduction. I highly recommend binging this show!

    πŸ“Ό No. 4: Goosebumps

    “Beware… you’re in for a scare…”

    Speaking of things that stick with you (Hi, Slappy!) my obsession with Goosebumps has never faded away. In fact, I used to collect the books as a kid along with routinely watching all the episodes of the TV series!

    watch on Amazon Prime

    I had to unfortunately donate all my old Goosebumps books in a cross-province move, but I’m hoping to start collecting them again (in my adulthood πŸ–€)

    and I’ll always remember you, Scholastic Book Fair Hauls πŸ“šπŸ–€


    Since I happen to do a lot of reading, and love to chat about books whenever I can (plugs Goosebumps book obsession above), I thought I’d suggest a few books that you might also enjoy…

    πŸ‘€ If you like those TV shows, you should really Read πŸ‘‡πŸ»

    πŸ“— No. 1:
    The Saturday Night Ghost Club πŸ‘»

    That nostalgic retro creepy atmosphere mixed with such a heartfelt story was everything I never knew I needed until I read this book.

    Craig Davidson (aka Nick Cutter) is a Canadian author who possess a wicked alter writing ego that you must check out!

    πŸ“— No. 2:
    Found: An Anthology of Found Footage Horror Stories πŸ“Ό

    A collection of unsettling and terrifying tales in this incredible curated anthology with some truly notable horror writers is a must read for any found footage ghoulie πŸ‘πŸ»

    πŸ“— No. 3:
    Daphne 🀘🏻

    Hearing chilling reading experiences from other booktubers really drew me to this book and I was NOT disappointed 😰

    It gives a truly immersive urban legend experience and has now officially put Josh Malerman on my reading radar.

    And might have inspired me to also pick up and read A House at the Bottom of a Lake

    πŸ“— No. 4:
    Be Scared of Everything: Horror Essays 😨

    As a ghoul obsessed with horror media and pop culture, I was really excited when I picked up this essay book from my local bookstore (Trident Booksellers & Cafe) and when I discovered it was written by a local author, I was even more excited!

    Local Author Peter Counter
    Dartmouth, Nova Scotia

    Another fellow blogger, author Peter Counter runs the Everything is Scary blog and has also published a few other non-fiction books. Definitely a writer to keep an eye on for captivating and insightful commentary!

    As a little Friday Fright Night bonus treat, in theme with the post, I thought I’d end tonight’s blog with a little audio visual to kick off the spooky spirits to come this weekend!

    If you haven’t already seen the recent video uploaded by Cadaber then you really ARE in for a terrifying treat 😱


    And if you haven’t already checked out the previous Scary Stories & Morbid Media post, I have an eerie suspicion you’d be intrigued with the content πŸ‘€


    Drop a πŸ•―οΈ if you’ve read up to this point or share your favorite nostalgic creepy content that has inspired your horror obsession πŸ’€

    Until we meet again,


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  • It’s been a very fashion forward weekend for me, as I’m planning on doing some major spring cleaning and prepping for upcoming clothing swaps in my community! πŸ‘€

    And if you know me, you know I have a slight obsession with collecting things… and graphic T-shirts just happen to be one of the many archival projects in my clothing lineup πŸ™ˆ

    πŸ’Ÿ Customize Your Character

    What I love about graphic tees is how customizable they can be when making any sort of outfit, or within any given style. Versatility at it’s finest… forget the labelled ‘size’ of the shirt!

    If you want to create that oversized, comfy look then find one that fits that vision!

    Wanna ’em cropped?

    Cut them!

    When you have options to customize your outfits and style, it can really feel creatively recharging. So using graphic tees as your artistic medium, you’ll truly have a kaleidoscope of ‘fits at your disposal!

    Building my Vision Board πŸ‘€

    To channel and source my inspo, I wanted to create a vision board to help me focus on how I want to rock my tees.

    I really love an effortless, edgy look that is chic and comfy for whatever the day has laid out for me, and if it can transition from day to night with ease… even better 😎

    Scroll down to πŸ‘€ the Graphic T-shirt Vision Board πŸ“Œ


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    Inspo: Graphic Tee Vision board πŸ“Œ

    A combination of … okay, maybe a lot of neutrals with a hint of color as the accent πŸ™ˆ but I’m working on brightening my outlook, okay? (ehehe)

    I like to use layering techniques to build an outfit (in any szn) which also includes adding pops of color whenever and wherever I can (but sometimes my red hair is that pop πŸ’‹)

    Again, what really draws me to this chic, chill and casual style is just how easy and effortless it feels, but yet looks put together with such intention… especially when you accessorize from day to night vibes πŸŒ‡

    check out my Pinterest board for more graphic #ootd inspirations

    Posting on Parallel πŸ›οΈ

    To track my outfits and looks, I use an app called Parallel.io which connects me (and you, if you want to sign up for free) with other users to share and shop the Brands you love πŸ–€

    Exquisitely cozy, and covered in cats

    You can also enter your outfits in closets to win ca$h prizes and monetize πŸ€‘ your #ootd and earn commissions when someone purchases an item using your tagged links in your photos (directly within the app via the Brands store page)

    Changing into something Comfy and Casual

    It’s so fun to interact and engage with everyone on the platform, and I find it very user-friendly for just collecting and archiving your lπŸ‘€kbook and #ootds!

    And a *nudge* to Friday’s Outfit Formula blog post (since this is my Fashion Forward weekend theme), my month’s goal is to find an easy way to mix and match my graphic tee collection, in the hopes that will really help me with curating outfits in the mornings and reduce the sheer amount of decision paralysis that occurs when I arise…

    Drop a πŸ“Œ if you’ve read this far, or comment below on your favorite ways to rock your graphic tees! 🀘🏻

    Until we meet again,


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